The good old ''runner-chaser'' paradox

Okay, I might sound a little harsh in this post #triggerwarning but trust me when I say it is only with the intention to help you understand and see the truth behind this paradox and share with you advice and Spirit's insight on this stage of the journey and how to effectively put an end to it once and for all!

First, I want you to know that this is not a ''necessary'' stage of the journey nor all twins experience this, same as how not all twins go through physical separation stage so if you're by any chance reading this or have read about this stage of the journey prior to meeting your Twin Soul in physical reality, please do not attach to this as being inevitable and ''prepare'' yourself for it as it will lead to you subconsciously expecting this to occur and is exactly what you're gonna manifest as a result. Okay, that being said and cleared, let's get onto helping all of you who are currently dealing with the Twin Flame runner to step out of that endless loop of push and pull dynamic between the counterparts.

Now, understand that most of us have been there including myself and I do know how you feel so please know that what I'm about to write is out of complete compassion and desire to help you on your journey to harmonious TF Union - YOU are the actual RUNNER, not your TF.

Let me explain this, your Twin is your perfect mirror, simply reflecting outwardly what is going on within you. So, if you are focusing all your attention to them or ''chasing'' them what you are actually doing is RUNNING from yourself and avoiding to focus on doing the inner work required to reach that inner Union within which will then and only then be reflected back to you by your Twin. I highly suggest listening to Beyonces song Runnin' in this situation, describes very well what happens when we focus all our attention on the other person - what you're actually doing is refusing to face your own inner wounds and heal them. And yes, I know how hard that is to accept, all of it. It is hard for our human ego mind to admit and accept full responsibility for our actions that ultimately caused us even more pain then we had to begin with, it is extremely hard to realize that we have no one else to blame but ourselves for what is going on in our physical reality, it is hard to forgive yourself for that and face all of our inner ''demons'' and darkness but it is totally worth it all I can assure you! Because it leads you to your own personal emotional freedom, your mind, body and soul will be at complete peace, your whole being will feel light and blissful effortlessly, it will go back to it's original state of unconditional love for yourself and all that is, it is a sense of being at one with all there is, a complete wholeness within which automatically attracts outer physical manifestation of Divine Union with your TF. That is the end result, but for now, please just try to say this and mean it, really feel how powerful this affirmations feel within you- I choose me! I AM WORTHY OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!

What most twins are scared of is that if they focus on themselves and choose to let go of their twin, their twin will forget about them or will never come back which can't be further away from the truth, your Twin wants you to do exactly that. Why? So you can learn to overcome your own limiting beliefs about love and relationships, so you can identify and clear out all the illusions of the human ego such as fear and lack programming, cultural conditioning and rise above the duality of the 3D consciousness, so you can learn your souls truth and start living your life free of shame, guilt, fear, judgement or any other negative thoughts and emotions that hold you back from living your best and fulfilled life. So you can finally see the ultimate truth that everything happens for a reason, everything happens for you - so you can learn and grow and live inspired by your experiences and not in constant fear.

Now to help you relax a little and raise your vibration with some magical positive facts about the TF experience and remind you that all is well and that you and your Twin Flame Union are always Divinely guided and protected I will write a list of facts you can always come back to and re-read in times when you're feeling pain, doubt or fear for whatever reason throughout your journey to Union:

1. You and your Twin are ALWAYS together no matter what is going on in the physical reality, always connected to each other energetically and in Spirit

2. You are your Twins one and only love, you were created together..yours is just to relax, open yourself up to be able to feel and receive their love and believe in them

3. Even when you are not in communication in 3D, you are always in communication telepathically - pay attention to songs and their lyrics popping out in your head out of nowhere ( that was really important on my own journey, there was a message for me in each song lyrics I heard from my Twin ), signs, synchronicites, angel numbers etc..it's their Higher Self trying to get your attention and offer guidance

4. If you met your Twin Flame in this lifetime, rest assured - you are meant to be and will live in harmonious physical Union with them no matter how impossible this may seem at times, remember that this is a Sacred partnership agreed upon your incarnation on Earth, it is in your soul contract and no one can take it away from you, have faith in yourself, your Twin and the Universe and that is how the magic happens!

Sending you all my love and light and blessings on your own journey!